Understanding Women by Romy Mills
Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, If Necessary (Paperback)
I've added this to my selection of recommended
seduction books. It is interesting as a womens view on the topic, and it's fascinating to compare and contrast it to books written by Mystery etc.
The book is a very quick read and says what in some ways is obvious - but maybe often forgotten.
I've added some quotes to give you a flavour:
Men women like:
The confident guy - He knows in his heart that he's good
The bad boy - Bad boys don't chase women, they let women chase them
The smart guy - Learns and pays attention
What she wants:
For you to be perfect
To change you (she will try)
Marriage
Babies
(Some, but not many exceptions to the last two)
(Will you produce healthy children? Can you - if she were to choose - support her)
Watch for the signals (that she likes you) - generally before approaching:
A smile thrown in your direction
A coy look
She runs her hands through het hair
She stares at you and when you look at her she looks away
She sends you a drink
She bites or licks her lips
She jerks her head for you to come over
When you walk over, say:
Hi, hows it going?
Hey, I'm Bob and you are?
Be aware of positive signs:
Catch her staring at you, then look away
A shy, small smile
Taps you on the shoulder or your arm
Tells a joke
Anything that demonstrates interest
Examples of what to say
Hey, do you want to get a bite to eat after work?
I was thinking we could go out sometime if you like
Have you heard about the concert series in the park? Would you like to go with me?
How about a cup of coffee?
Ice breakers
Do you have the time (assuming you don't have a watch)
Compliment her on something, like her watch or earrings (shoes?)
Hi. how are you?
DON'T try to impress her but:
Open doors
Unlock her side of the car first
Pay the check
What women really like
Compliments
Chocolate
Shoes
A man who is good in bed
A may who pays for dinner
A man who can work on her car
A man who listens to her
Planning her dream wedding
Jewelry
Men
A good contrast to some male written books!