Thread: Seduction Books

Seduction Books

You can find a list of recommended seduction books on:

NLP Seduction and Attraction: Attraction and seduction books

I probably prefer 'The Mystery Method'.

If there ar others you would recommend please add a post!

Understanding Women by Romy Mills

Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, If Necessary (Paperback)

I've added this to my selection of recommended seduction books. It is interesting as a womens view on the topic, and it's fascinating to compare and contrast it to books written by Mystery etc.

The book is a very quick read and says what in some ways is obvious - but maybe often forgotten.

I've added some quotes to give you a flavour:

Men women like:

The confident guy - He knows in his heart that he's good
The bad boy - Bad boys don't chase women, they let women chase them
The smart guy - Learns and pays attention

What she wants:

For you to be perfect
To change you (she will try)
Marriage
Babies

(Some, but not many exceptions to the last two)
(Will you produce healthy children? Can you - if she were to choose - support her)

Watch for the signals (that she likes you) - generally before approaching:

A smile thrown in your direction
A coy look
She runs her hands through het hair
She stares at you and when you look at her she looks away
She sends you a drink
She bites or licks her lips
She jerks her head for you to come over

When you walk over, say:

Hi, hows it going?
Hey, I'm Bob and you are?

Be aware of positive signs:

Catch her staring at you, then look away
A shy, small smile
Taps you on the shoulder or your arm
Tells a joke
Anything that demonstrates interest

Examples of what to say

Hey, do you want to get a bite to eat after work?
I was thinking we could go out sometime if you like
Have you heard about the concert series in the park? Would you like to go with me?
How about a cup of coffee?

Ice breakers

Do you have the time (assuming you don't have a watch)
Compliment her on something, like her watch or earrings (shoes?)
Hi. how are you?

DON'T try to impress her but:

Open doors
Unlock her side of the car first
Pay the check

What women really like

Compliments
Chocolate
Shoes
A man who is good in bed
A may who pays for dinner
A man who can work on her car
A man who listens to her
Planning her dream wedding
Jewelry
Men

A good contrast to some male written books!

Five minute erotica - 35 passionate tales of tales of sex and seduction

Amazon.co.uk: Five Minute Erotica: 35 Passionate Tales of Sex and Seduction (Five-Minute): Carol Queen: Books

Finally got round to reading a book written mainly for women. I found it quite strong stuff - although some of the Amazon reviewers thought it quite tame.

From the back cover " These smart, sexy, and fun stories come from well-known writers of erotica - Cecilia Tan, David Henry Sperry, and Sage Vivant to name a few. They're guaranteed to jump start your libido, whether you share them with your lover or keep them your sly little secret."

Interesting.....

If you're interested in the subject, definitely worth a read,

Any comments appreciated!

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